hope ! have a nice day and nice dream
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Within a week and a half I picked up some chick and took her back to the hotel. I slept with six women over the course of the next two months (because I work in a hospital and go to school there were a lot of interests that I had turned down because I had been married). I told myself I would never leave myself open to being taken like I was by this woman who supposedly loved me at some point.My ex kidnapped my daughter for nine weeks and was awarded custody (without makeup time) and a very nice share of Child Support (which the state stepped in and lowered because of how ridiculous it really was).

I am now dating someone amazing and have been all hers for almost a year. I would love to marry this woman once were out of school (I wouldn't want to stop her dream and won't stop my own). But I don't think I would voluntarily have another child. Without my daughter my ex would have had little power over me once things got settled. As it is she maintains a ridiculous amount of power over me by using my child as a pawn. I will be completely over the divorce when my daughter emancipates herself from her mother. But I didn't like my ex-wife when we were together, HATE her now, and am a part of a wonderful loving experience with a person I believe is the perfect woman.

So emotionally - over the ex and marriage business
Financially - I'm very resourceful and there is always more money to be made
Parentally - I will never get over what she did to me

But you never start a new trip with old luggage. I learned a lot from the hell that was my marriage. So much in fact that it allowed my to woo and win the lovely lady I now have. and I can't say that if she asked if I wouldn't be open to having another child. I just know that the anger that now exists must subside. Luckily for me, she's four years younger so we have time.
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If you are supporting two families…we basically know WHY you got a divorce.

Women who receive alimony only (married many years, divorced when old, may not have jobs or have health problems) cannot remarry and receive alimony while a man can remarry as often as he wants (I suggest you marry a feminist with a great income).

In many states alimony is not awarded but separate maintenance which is only awarded for a short, given amount of time. In short, the deck is still stacked in the man's favor.

Difference is now, as Madonna learned…even women can have to pay a settlement or alimony.

Child support…well…no one should even have to ask about the fairness of that, they are YOUR children too and I think you would want the best for them whatever you have to do.

It seems to me that it would be a fairer and more important concern to address keeping marriages and families together. Even adult children suffer greatly from the break up of families.
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