How come society does not have compassion for men in divorce? Is it purely economic stabilization? ?
Question by John J: How come society does not have compassion for men in divorce? Is it purely economic stabilization? ?
Is it way to transfer wealth to attorneys? Is it a way economically enslave men in their youthful years?
Best answer:
Answer by Jane Marple
You have a real problem with women eh! Get over it…read what women have to say on here, you’ll see it’s not pretty pink on our side either.
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January 9th, 2012 at 8:28 pm
I think men get enough the way it is they get more in life than us women!
January 9th, 2012 at 9:20 pm
It’s not a matter of compassion… it’s simple…it’s called the judicial system..
January 9th, 2012 at 10:04 pm
I feel your pain brother thats why ive never been married. Women wonder why men are so hesitant to get married. Its because when it ends in divorce MOST of them( I said most so im not generalizing) have their grubby hands out lookin to ruin you. Hmmmm,guys dont do that.
January 9th, 2012 at 10:46 pm
how did you conclude that society does not have compassion for men in divorce? I paid my ex-hubby’s rent for 4 years after we were divorced, plus giving him $ 27K in cash. I took all the credit card bills to pay even though he ran them up. This is all because he did not have a job or a source of income. He took whatever he wanted in the break up of the furniture, vehicles etc.
my 1st husband (a different divorce) never paid child support to me even though i had the kids most of the time and they were 7 & 9 at the time of the divorce, he also took whatever he wanted. and he had a great paying job. i gave up my weekends so my son could go to boy scout camp because he wasn’t willing to give up his or split them. i paid for music lessons and gymnastics because he wasn’t willing. i don’t understand how you came to your conclusion, it doesn’t fit with my life.
January 9th, 2012 at 11:15 pm
its true that neither law nor society is compassionate about divorced men. It can b because we always had a men centric society and women have been tortured. Now as things have started changing, there will be many confusion and many ammendments required both in our laws and socio-mental structure….Hope the law makers r listening.
January 9th, 2012 at 11:26 pm
If compassion is what you are looking for, then you should have put more effort into the marriage. Divorce isn’t easy for anyone involved.
January 10th, 2012 at 12:06 am
sorry you had some bad experiences it isn’t women its society in general that portrays the picture perfect family like the brady bunch or leave it to beaver. when we have good role models growing up then we may have a chance at having a decent life. however drugs, poverty, the wanting to be loved by anyone other than the ones that hurt us. that’s for both sex’s as far as divorce goes i think that its a sad that men in the past have taken advantage of women. now days its women taking advantage of men. an apple doesn’t fall from the tree my grandma used to say. there are some really good women intelligent, hardworking, most of all don’t need a mommas boy that isn’t capable of breaking away from the nursery. women want respect, equal in everything from work, home life, kids. now more over more men are getting custody of there kids in divorce due to the fact that some women aren’t capable of taking care of the child. when a man walks out on a good woman its due to finances, cheating, or the just the pressure of it all. both want there cake and eat it too.
January 10th, 2012 at 12:38 am
Okay boo hoo…my ex owes me $ 40,000.00 in arrears, he is not paying…now how has society been unkind to HIM? Enslave men into their responsibilities maybe, because some of them behave as youthful boys rather than growing up and behaving like men. And, by the way, he paid off his attorney with the money he was supposed to put towards child support…I still owe my attorney BIG BUCKS.
January 10th, 2012 at 12:40 am
Choice D: a way to economically enslave men in their youthful years
January 10th, 2012 at 1:00 am
In my opinion, a man can take care of his kids just as well as a women can. Look at how many men that do not get the opportunity. In the court system it is all about Power and economics. A wise person told me when it comes to your kids. It is not about the money. It is about spending time with them! As a single father, I know. I tried to keep up with my Ex-wife and failed. I found out what was most important. The Best Thing That Has Ever Happened To Me. The time I have with my daughter, .
A great web sight to look at: http://www.fatherhood.org
Equal rights for both Mom & DAD.
Whooo’s the man!!! I am, I’m a DAD