Who is the main cause for divorce men or women?
Question by : Who is the main cause for divorce men or women?
We know that it might depend on each case but overall does divorce happen because of men or women
Best answer:
Answer by Yolanda
Men
What do you think? Answer below!
January 22nd, 2012 at 6:47 pm
It happens mostly because everyone starts pulling their panties down way before they know who their screwing
January 22nd, 2012 at 7:35 pm
The one caught cheating usually.
January 22nd, 2012 at 8:18 pm
Expectations not being met.
January 22nd, 2012 at 9:03 pm
Women profit from divorce and are encouraged to file because they are rewarded for doing so.
This clearly explains why women file 80% of divorces.
January 22nd, 2012 at 9:41 pm
Marriage is the number one cause of divorce.
January 22nd, 2012 at 9:50 pm
Divorce lawyers don’t advertise on ESPN or the History Channel, but they advertise on Lifetime and the Oprah Network…
Take a guess.
January 22nd, 2012 at 9:50 pm
I think that most divorces happen because feelings and core values between the partners aren’t the same. People rush in without looking at each other’s character, talking about feelings and life ideas.
January 22nd, 2012 at 10:35 pm
The man walks out (often for younger model) and the woman is forced to file for divorce.
January 22nd, 2012 at 11:19 pm
Both people in general are assholes!
January 22nd, 2012 at 11:56 pm
I think it’s usually a joint effort. Too much emphasis is placed on the final transgression. For example, having an affair is NOT the real problem. It usually has something to do with unmet needs. Not enough sex, affection, respect… etc.
If you have ever watched a sporting event, the penalty is usually given to the guy who hits back. The fight was started by a different person, but the blame goes on the last person to throw a blow.
This is the case with an affair. The first punch was thrown by the other spouse, but the resulting affair is the only focus.
I had a buddy who had an affair. He got sex once a week or less for years. He asked for counseling, what he could do to change things… and his wife simply did less and less in bed. The result was that he fell out of love with her and ended up falling for a more sexual woman. Was this entirely his fault? No, because his wife didn’t even try to meet his needs.
So, what is the main cause of divorce? Not meeting the needs of each other. One unmet need is all it takes. It could be affection, financial security, sex… it will destroy the marriage and the blame will usually go on the wrong person.
January 23rd, 2012 at 12:55 am
men usually abandon women.
January 23rd, 2012 at 1:18 am
It takes TWO people to contribute to a marriage breaking down.
January 23rd, 2012 at 2:08 am
Both. Some men cheat and so do some women.